A New Year in Stewardship: Think About Legacy Giving
Later this spring we will offer information sessions about planned legacy giving. The Cathedral is one of five parishes in the Diocese of Southwest Florida that are participating in a pilot study by the Episcopal Church Foundation to find effective ways of creating a “culture of stewardship.” You’ll be hearing more from us about this. Our pledge drive lasts for two months in the fall, but stewardship of time, talent and treasure is something we work at every day of the year. Below is a chart that suggests ways you can offer your time, talent, and treasure in 2019. New year’s resolutions, anyone?
Have questions or would like more information? Contact Ray McColgan, Stewardship Chair.
A conversation with the Rev. Paige Hanks
Our transitional deacon, the Rev. Paige Hanks, will be ordained priest at 11 am Saturday, January 5. All are invited to attend this service and welcome her into the next stage of her life and service in the church.
Paige was ordained deacon in June in the Diocese of Dallas and most recently lived in North Carolina. She moved to St. Petersburg in late fall because of her husband David's job with Johnson Controls. To help us get to know each other, we asked Paige to tell us about herself. (A shorter version of this Q&A appears in the January issue of our Crosstown newsletter.)
The path to becoming a priest is shaped not only by a sense of call but by how we recognize the image of God in those around us and reflect it back into the world. The Rev. Paige Hanks shares with us what she has learned and experienced along her journey.
Who is your favorite character in the Bible, and tell us why.
PAIGE: Mary Magdalene is my favorite character, although there are so many completely human folks that God draws in and equips for leadership! Her presence in each of the four Gospels and as a witness to Christ’s death and resurrection serve as a reminder to me that a faithful presence with Christ will be a witness to others. I sometimes imagine that Mary and I could have been friends had we been contemporaries, as I love to be inspired by folks who are willing to be brave and speak out the truth.
Tell us your favorite hymn, and why.
PAIGE: This may be the hardest question to answer, because hymnody is my prayer language. When I don’t have words, or when my feelings are swirling around and I can’t make sense of what’s happening, I default to singing hymns and songs of praise mostly by myself (you’re welcome!). Hymns help me to center myself in a particular moment in time and help me forget about all the extras that are intruding while I am trying to be focused. I particularly love hymns that have sacramental language around the body and blood of Christ, as I am deeply transformed and humbled at God’s altar when I consider receiving the gifts of our Savior. If you forced me to choose, I would have to say “Let All Mortal Flesh Keep Silence.” There is something magical about the words and tune for me that transport me to another space where I can almost feel myself surrender to the power and love of Christ.
Tell us about a time when you found yourself talking to someone you didn't know about God (gulp! an evangelism moment!).
PAIGE: First of all, we have to OWN the word evangelism and be not afraid to claim it! Talking about God to others is a sacred opportunity, and I can’t think of one time (outside the church setting) where I have found myself planning to go out and tell someone about God. Yet I have had countless opportunities to do so, some of which I have taken, and some of which I let slip right on by.
One of my favorites was at the dentist's office when I showed up for a routine cleaning. I had planned to go home from work to change out of my collar (to be more comfortable in that dentist’s chair). But the day got really busy at church and I didn’t have a chance. I walked in wearing my clerical shirt and had a great conversation about God with the new receptionist. He had never met a member of the clergy, and although we didn’t talk long -- because it was time for my appointment -- we had such a warm conversation between two people who were just trying to understand one another. I didn’t push the conversation toward God, but was excited to answer the questions being asked by someone who didn’t know much about God. It had been a busy day without much time for reflection, and this conversation gave me lots to consider as I lay in the dentist chair for the next hour. It really made me think about whether he would have asked those same questions if I were wearing my regular clothes. And how I can make the space and time, no matter what I am wearing, to be reflecting the image of God to all people I meet, because that is the best tool for evangelism! Make a friend, be a friend, bring a friend to Christ!
You had a long first vocation in elementary education as a teacher and principal. What did you learn there that applies to your new vocation as a priest?
PAIGE: One of my personality traits is to be a talker. I am always good for a story or a great conversation. One of my areas of challenge is that while you are talking, you really can’t also be listening. Being a teacher of kids and adults is perhaps surprisingly less about talking and more about listening. Really hearing what people say teaches you what people need: what they need from you as their leader, and what they need for themselves to continue to grow and learn. I hope that working hard to be a better listener helps me provide more effective pastoral care, as well as helps me to recognize the unique worth and individual needs that each person I encounter has at that particular time in their life.
The relationship of our Trinitarian God, Christ, and Holy Spirit models for us all the way that we are to live in community with one another, rather than as solitary individuals. I hope to be able to reach out to each person in a way that recognizes their Imago Dei (image of God) and reflects back to them that they are loved and valued for exactly who they are as I listen to their story and respond in love.
Who were your role models along the way?
PAIGE: So many people have been role models in this crazy life of mine! I am especially drawn to strong women who face adversity with dignity and courage. I would be remiss if I didn’t first mention my own mom, who was my leader in life right up until her death in 2012. She was a rock in our family and never let my sisters and me think there was a thing in the world we couldn’t do if we worked toward it. She taught us to be strong in our faith and to stand for what was right even if everyone else was going in another direction entirely. She was quite young when I was born by today’s standard, and after being a stay-at-home parent she went back to school to be a teacher and eventually a college professor, recognized by her peers and attaining some of the most prestigious accolades in her field of geographic education. But at the end of the day, she was my sounding board, my biggest critic and the president of my fan club. There are hundreds of people who feel the same way about her, and she wasn’t even their mother.
My sisters are also courageous and strong like Mom and I look up to them as role models in different ways as they navigate the challenges of life as successful professionals and women of great faith. When the three of us girls get together, we are quite a force and have tackled many hard challenges together. I am grateful for Mom, Lexi, and Mary Beth, as well as the many other women and men we have been blessed to have as mentors and bonus moms and dads throughout our lives.
How can we encourage young people -- especially girls and women -- to consider whether they feel a call to ordained ministry?
PAIGE: This is something for which I have great passion. I did not formally discern a call to ordained ministry until I was well into my 40s. As I reflect on my life in the church, I cannot help but imagine whether that would have been different had I belonged to church in a denomination where women were allowed to serve as priests when I was young. Although I am a lifelong Episcopalian, my first worship experience with a female priest was not until I was a parent in my late 20s. My father was a long-serving acolyte warden in our church, and I was allowed to serve as an acolyte only when we just ran out of all available boys. While Dad came a LONG way in his understanding of women and their roles in church and was super supportive of my discernment process, that kind of thinking perhaps stunted my awareness of God’s calling in my life.
We should be intentional about discussing vocation as Christians, both ordained and as laity active in the world. The last church position I held centered on vocational discernment, and I was very intentional about giving voice to people of all backgrounds. It was completely acceptable for me as a woman to consider becoming an elementary teacher when I was in college, because that is a normative experience we all have in our schooling backgrounds. What if it became normative to have women preaching and teaching throughout God’s church? What a great model for young girls and adult women to see someone doing what they might imagine God calling them to do!